Randomness for Daddy ...

When toys aren't involved ... these two are generally really great friends.

That makes me HAPPY.

We picked more cherry tomatoes today.  

I finally separated the basil and tomato plants.

The basil  plant is HUGE.

Smells so good on the porch.

I'll get some mozzarella and we will be in saladville USA when you get home.

Oh my good lord. 

 Did you know that Crayola makes colored play sand?

I thought Keira might pee her pants when she saw the pink.

Fin said "bring it".  

Oh, and yes ... he did try to eat it.  

It is actually pretty cool.

Pink on one side, blue on the other.

Somewhere in the middle they meet and form purple.

No complaints from these two.

Love you ... miss you ... counting the days.

Mountains of Monkey Munch ...

We made monkey munch ...

dog chow ...

whatever the heck you call it ..

today.

I've only had it once before but I read about it recently.

Who knew it was so easy to make.

Some chex cereal, chocolate chips, peanut butter, margarine, 

powdered sugar and vanilla.

That's it.

Of course in my anxiousness to get it all together 

(keep Keira from eating the chocolate chips) ...

I forgot the vanilla. 

No mas ... 

nobody seemed to notice.

I mean come on ...

Chocolate and peanut butter fused into a crunch medium 

AND covered in powdered sugar.  

You know you want some.

Just grab the recipe off the side of the Rice Chex box...

and then you too ...

can have a little face like this staring back at you.

Notice that ever so slight trace of powdered sugar on the upper lip.

Mmmmmmm ... monkey munch.

July 4th .... finally

Keira knows the pledge of allegiance by heart.

She knows that the fourth of July is all about the red ... white ... and blue.

It's also about ...

parades where candy flies freely ... playing with cousins ... 

swimming ... eating junk.  all.  day.  long.

She knows all about Cowan lake

and uncle Billy & Aunt May's farm.  

Yep ... it's right up there with Christmas for us. 

My country tis of thee ...

sweet land of liberty.

Fin on the other hand ... 

he just knows that if he runs fast enough, 

he can stay a couple steps ahead of mom or dad.

There is that point though ...

... where he finally passes out and then we all get a break.

All the Carey siblings made it this year!

Aunt Judy from New York ...

Uncle Charles from Arkansas.

What a FUN group.  

Throw in a pontoon boat and Montgomery Inn the next day and you

never know what might happen.  

Thanks again Randy for the wine ..

and Tom for being the "Fin whisperer".

Clarksville is a tiny farming community very near Wilmington and Sasha's house.

They have a charming July 4th parade every year.  

Kids on decorated bicycles ..

emergency vehicles with flags and horns blaring ..

GIGANTIC farm equipment showering us with candy.

It's enough excitement for my all American princess to explode!

But then we saw pony rides ....

the rest of that is history.

She's going to name the pony C.C. get's her 

(when she's 5)

Strawberry Shortcake.

You started it Cindy.

In the late afternoon and evening we headed out to the McCoy's farm.

We got to witness Michael's mad kayak skills.

Fin absolutely can NOT stay away from this ATV.

Cameron took him for a ride ...

still wearing a hat.

(Cameron ... not Fin)

The Romance's were all there.

How great to see how much Patrick and Emily have grown..

to congratulate Gilbert on soon being a big brother.

Thanks to Aunt Pat, I now have to have an IPad 

of my very own. 

The boys do fireworks over the pond every year. 

The kids anxiously await this all day long.

According to these faces ... it's worth the wait.

Even Fin enjoyed the fireworks ...

Of course ... that boy enjoys anything 

from his daddy's lap.

Our 4th was all we imagined it would be.  

The only thing missing was my family in Florida ..

and we did miss them.

I am thankful for our freedom to celebrate.

I am thankful for these traditions and memories.

Memories for me and Shawn ... 

memories my kids will always have.

I am most thankful for the people who are a part of these memories.

The people who define the word ... family.

There were tons of pictures.  I know many of you wanted copies.

We've uploaded the best to our family photo site.

You can click on the link below to see them.

You can also download them to have for prints etc...

Carey/McCoy July 4th

In order to download in individual picture, double click the picture (to make it bigger).  

Double click on the icon that looks like an arrow pointing downward.

Posting overload ...

Good morning chompers!!

(Keira calls Fin "little chomper" ... it's got a ring to it)

Thanks so much for the notes, emails and prayers for my fabulous mother-in-law.  Remember you can comment anytime too.  

Comments make me feel a little less like I'm talking to myself.

Just click on the comment button at the bottom.

It's super easy.  Create a google ID (free) and then it will be a piece of cake to harass me all the time.  

I'm going to be doing several posts today.

Just want to warn you.

I want to get caught up on all our recent adventures before July 4th.

Nothing like waiting till the last minute ..

.. at least you can rest assured it's me writing this and not some 

punctual imposter.  Yep ... definitely me.

Anyhoo .... July 4th is a HUGE holiday for our family.

It's right up there with Christmas.

I'll probably take 10 billion pictures tomorrow.

Seriously.

So enjoy a quick catch up.

Hope you are ready for lots of red, white, and blue 

late tomorrow or Monday.  

Happy 4th - may your day be filled with sparklers!

The "C" word...

Did you ever know someone who was so captivating that they almost seemed magnetic?

At first you think, "I never knew there could be anyone so incredibly genuine". 

Knowing her helps you to see the good in other people.

This is my mother-in-law Sandi.

My kids call her Sasha ... you may remember the post I did about her birthday a while back.  

She has absolutely, positively made a difference in my life.

She has influenced the person I am ... the woman I am.

Two weeks ago, everything in our world Changed. 

Two weeks ago, Sasha was diagnosed with Stage IV liver and lung cancer. 

Most of you who know me personally have met her.  

If you have had that privilege then you know she is most definitely a one of a kind.

She is beautiful ...

She is funny ...

She believes in you ... even if she barely knows you.

She is the type of person who can almost instantly, with a smile and some words, 

help you to hold your head high and take a happy stride through life. 

Please pray for her ... pray for us.  

So far she is doing great.  She started chemo on Monday.

Today she went through a relatively invasive radiation treatment.

She did it in full make up ... jewelry ... and heels, only Sasha.

It's in storms like these that time slows down.  

You hold onto the minutes a little bit tighter.

You try to truly live every passing second.  

We will get through this.

As Sasha herself says, 

"It's a little "c" not a big "C".  Let's not give it any more power than it deserves."

I told you she is amazing.  

She is loved by so many and all of us will fight with her.

We are not here to weather the storm ...

But to learn to dance in the rain.

Missed us???

Have you missed us?

I am so very sorry We've been MIA lately.  

The whole thing started with my trusty apple spending a few weeks in repair.

I almost got a new macbook out of the deal .... but alas, I am back and operational.

After my computer spent a few days too many with the mac doctors, we went on the road. 

Lots of travel.

Lots of good times with family.

We even saw Mickey Mouse followed by big sky and tall cacti.

Then there is the chaos associated with a household that's been neglected for weeks.

I'm catching up ... slowly.

We also have some family news that is weighing heavy on our hearts. 

We need lots of prayers and positive vibes sent our way.

I'll share all of this with you.  I just have to figure out where to begin.

So ... I'll get the posting started ... as soon as I wash enough clothes for us to not run around naked.

I do have my priorities.  

Much love and peace -

The McCoys

My Foyer will bore ya.

This is my foyer ... it looks pretty much the same as the day we moved in.

It's boring.

The ceilings are extremely high, which is the only reason I haven't painted it yet.  

I'm a 'do it yourselfer' to a fault.  

It takes me a long time to accept that I can't 'do it myself'.  

Which is why this horrible color hasn't been changed in the 2 years we've been here.  

Then there is this monstrosity.  

Actually it's not that bad ... it's just brass.  Yuck. 

I was thinking that a coat of off white spray paint and some pretty shades might do the trick.

We'll see.  I haven't shopped around for a new one yet.  

I'm also cheap to a fault.

It's an extremely tall space but other wise it isn't huge.  

The stairway takes up most of it.  

The good news is that we are finally going to have it painted.

I have to pick a color in the next week or so. 

Coincidentally ... I am a 'mind changer' to a fault as well.

Just ask Shawn about the many colors of the basement.

On second thought .. don't ask him.

So the pictures below are all things I like.  

They all came from Houzz.com - which is a great resource when you are redecorating or need inspiration.  

In this I like the color but I also like that huge map.  

We have a map like this that we mark our travels on.

It's a great idea to make it more prominent.  

I LOVE this color.  Problem is ... most of the rest of my house is that color.  

Is it a faux pas having an almost monochromatic house?

I also LOVE those frames going up the stairway.

This is the same concept as the empty frames but with mirrors.  

You can find these types of frames/mirrors for dirt cheap at thrift stores, flea markets, yard sales, on craigslist, my sister-in-law's basement ...  The hunt is most of the fun!  

Now this is hands down the type of thing Shawn will want to do.  

The color, the photographs, the dark accents...  nice huh?  

I love it too and we certainly have enough great pictures to do it.  

I just worry about getting tired of looking at the same pictures.

Let's be realistic ... I'll never change them out.  

I really LOVE that "shelf/chair rail" they created.  

It really breaks up the wall space that the high ceiling creates.  

Definitely an idea that could help us out.

Problem is we'd have to have a designer come in to help us keep it from looking "homemade".

Read above comment about me being "cheap to a fault" ... apply comment here.

So ... I've got a lot to think about over the next couple of days.  

Since, in my opinion, the color is the base for everything else ... it's actually a big decision.

Please feel free to chime in.  

I need all the help I can get. 

I am indeed a winner!!

The above is a statement ... not an affirmation.  That's right folks ... I won, I won, I won!!


What - you ask?  I won a photo shoot with a local photographer named Sara Green!  It all started with Becky Higgins.


Who - you ask?  Well Becky Higgins is like the Martha Stewart of scrapbooking - but nicer.  I'm not really a scrapbooker but I take TONS of picture of my kids and Becky has a great system for digital scrapbooking.  It's called "project life" and the formats are already created digitally.  I just have to plug in my pictures and the text, order the book to be printed and voila - I have a beautiful, tangible memory of my family.  Becky's big thing is that she feels everyone should have professional pictures taken.  Everyone.  It's important to document our lives. I agree with that.  So, she started a huge photography contest where photographers all over the country give away photography shoots.  Enter Sara Green.  Sara in an awesome lifestyle photographer here in Cincinnati who participated in the giveaway.


I didn't win that. Bummer.  You see, Sara is so awesome that she also did a giveaway on her blog.  That ... I WON!  She is also doing a special for 10 lucky families - a photo shoot for $70!  Amazing.  You see, Sara believes in Becky's philosophy too.  Check out Sara's blog and shoot her an email!!  Take advantage of a professional session for your family.  Especially if you are anything like me ... always taking the pictures and NEVER in them.  Follow the link to her blog!!


Sara Green Designs


So wow ... I'm so excited about this.  A real photo shoot!  The only time I managed a "professional" family picture was way before Finley was born.  I was able to drag Shawn and Keira to a picture people.  What a disaster.  I knew it would be a long long time before I could convince Shawn to do something like that again.  Perfect timing!!


So, I'm going to put this doughnut down since now I really do have to lose a couple of pounds.  OK ... maybe just one more. ;-)

Earning Mother's Day

So ... my mother's day went something like this:

Slept in until 10:30 ... you read that right ... 10:30.  And I SLEPT too.   

My wonderful husband played a wedding with his band the night before and still got up with the kids so I could sleep in.  It's all I asked for, all I really wanted.  

That's love.

I come downstairs to a delicious breakfast waiting for me, again, prepared by my amazing hubby.  

Mother's day was also Keira's actual birthday.  We saved a box of presents from her Grandma & Grandpa in Florida to give her on her actual birthday.  Naturally she was waiting all morning for me to get up so she could open them.

How cute is this idea ... a princess suitcase (on rollers - this was a big deal to her) filled with princess goodies.  Games, books, art supplies, makeup etc..  Mom, you hit a home run with that one.   She was pulling the suitcase around the kitchen all day telling me she's ready to go to grandma & grandpa's house.   

This is Keira trying out her make up.  That was also a big deal to her.  The crown and wand were art projects from her party the day before.  She did make it quite clear to me when I was setting up for the party though that princesses don't have wands ... fairies do.
I told her to use her imagination. 
The make up was really just lip gloss and some fingernail stickers.  She didn't quite get the 'fingernail sticker' concept.  That's one of the stickers on her forehead.  


We also saved her big gift for the actual birthday.  Everyone went in together: mommy, daddy, Finley, Grandma, Grandpa, Granny, Sasha, Aunt CeCe, Uncle Harry, Michael and Scotty.  We all got her the barbie jammin jeep.  
She saw it in walmart a month ago and never stopped talking about it.  
Shawn and I picked it up Saturday afternoon but I was too tired to put it together.  So, I figured we'd give it to her in the box in the morning and she could play with her other toys while I put it together.  


Dear power wheels:  It's nice that you put it in huge print on the manual that the battery must charge for 18 hours.  However, do you think you could also PUT THAT ON THE OUSIDE OF THE FREAKING BOX!!?!?!?!?


So I put this thing together and Keira had a great time .... sitting in it.  
Just sitting while the battery charged ... 18 HOURS.

Oh .. and this picture is proof positive that my butt needs to be on the weight loss train.  Can anyone say muffin top?!?  Oh and I will NOT be wearing another skirted swimsuit this year.  NOT happening.  I'll swim in shorts and a T shirt first.   Many women look perfectly lovely in skirted swimsuits.  I am not one of those women.  I just look ... uncomfortable.  
I think my 'baby weight' excuse expired when Fin turned one.  
I didn't get the extended warranty on that one either.


Anyhow ... jeep together - check.  Shawn's mom (Sasha), sister (Aunt CeCe) and nephew Scotty came over to celebrate Mother's day and Keira's birthday.  


That's when the puking started.  


Oh yeah ... Fin puked on me about 7 times.  I'm soooo not exaggerating either.  I can still smell it.  I think it's soaked into my nostrils or something.  So after 10 wardrobe changes (7 for Fin, 3 for me).  We finally got around to getting red lobster take out.  We let KB pick since it was her birthday.  She's got a thing for the cheddar biscuits.  

I finally just let Fin go shirtless because I was getting tired of changing him.  Oh, and yes, he's still climbing on the table.  Even sick, he climbs on the table.  


Other than the puking and the stupid power wheels eternally charging battery, it was a fabulous day.  Actually, even with those things it was a great day.  Now I have something to hold over Fin's head for future mother's days ... and Keira has something to hold over mine for future birthdays. 
It's all about balance people. 


But ... the best part of Mother's day was laying in my bed at night, watching TV with my baby girl.  She turns to me, without provocation, and says, "Happy Mother's day mom ... thank you.  I love you."  No my sweet baby girl ... thank you.  


On a side note.  I took Tank to the doctor today ... not one but TWO ear infections.  
Oh .. and Keira got to drive her jeep.

My baby girl turns 4...

If you have children then you understand when I say that your life really almost just begins when your babies are born.  

My baby turned four years old today. 

Time goes fast ...

way too fast ...

Your personality:

    You are smart.  I mean really smart.  I know most parents think that of their kids but I'm being sincere.  It's is often quite a bit of work to stay one step ahead of you.  You have a tender heart and want things to be fair for everyone.  This includes your babies.  You have a 'no baby left behind' policy that has us frantically searching for various 'friends' at bedtime.  If everyone isn't accounted for ... you don't go to sleep.  You have an amazing vocabulary.  Having a conversation with you is very much like speaking to an adult.  

What you can do:

    You can count and recognize numbers up to 20.  You recognize all the letters of the alphabet and can write many of them.  You know how to spell your name and can say the pledge of allegiance all by yourself.  You recognize all the colors and shapes and are able to draw most of the shapes.  You can also sing almost every word to "Party in the USA" by Miley Cyrus.  Fun.  You are quite responsible for a 4 year old and help mommy watch baby brother all the time.  You like being the big sister.  Especially the bossing around aspect of it.  

Your likes:

     You like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and fruit.  You LOVE bacon (that's my girl) and anything sweet.  You just recently got into eating salad which has thrown me for a loop and will even request turkey and cheese sandwiches.  You like to dance and think you are already a master ballerina.  You can almost do a split .. impressive!  You draw and paint any opportunity you get and our driveway is rarely without one of your chalk masterpieces.  You play doctor a lot and have also been putting your babies in time out for various reasons lately.  You live to help and want to help mommy and daddy with anything you possibly can.  You go to sound check with Daddy on Saturdays and watch the band get ready.  You help mommy clean the table and make your bed.

Your dislikes:

     You don't like meat.  The only meat related items you'll eat are bacon, turkey, and the occasional chicken nugget.  You won't touch anything with beef - spaghetti w/meat sauce and hamburgers are out of the question.  You don't like most vegetables either.  You aren't very adventurous with food and really don't eat that much at all.  You don't like to have your feelings hurt, who does, but if you feel genuinely wronged then you fall apart.  You don't like to have your picture taken.  For every good photo of you, mommy has taken about 10 bad ones.  

You are a one of a kind kiddo.  You can make me laugh with a look.  You also challenge me with a taste of head strong nature that you inherited from me.  You are so sweet and tell me daily that you love me ... I'm the best mom ever.  You cherish your friends and the relationships you have with your family.  We still call you "Keira B" or "KB" and you don't seem to mind.   You stand up for yourself.  When you don't agree with something you don't hesitate to declare it.  If you've really made your mind up you can out argue your opponent with ease.  

When I look at you I see beauty but I see an equal amount of strength, determination, and tender heartedness.  I am more proud of you than I can express. 

 We love you so much baby girl.  Happy birthday #4.